How Do You Know Your Partner Is Lying?

Knowing the couple's lies - Everyone certainly does not want to be lied to, let alone being lied to by the closest people like boyfriends, spouses or people we care about. Because the success of a long-term relationship is certainly more or less influenced by trust, openness and honesty of each partner. But the fact is that many couples are very difficult to say honestly and openly with their partners, even if only a lie - a small lie, but if it is left alone, of course it will become a bad habit that can threaten the success of a long-term relationship.
If yesterday I shared how to find out someone was lying according to Psichology Today and someone commented on my e-mail asking about "Then how do you find out if your partner is lying", this time I will share a little about tips on how couples lied. Of course other people's lies with your partner will be different ways of knowing it because it is related to emotional feelings and will be different from the way they lie.

Of course this method does not make you have a bad judgment on your partner because once again this is not 100% right, because this is only according to expert judgment that I quoted from the popular Psychology web so it might be useful for you to maintain your alertness and not be a benchmark for judging someone's lie. Ok we just go straight, here are some tips to find out your partner is lying to you:

Do not want to contact the eye
Maybe words can lie, but still eye contact will show the truth. A person who lies generally does not want to come into contact with his eyes when he tells his lies because he is afraid that his lies will be uncovered unless your partner is professional + a liar. When you ask something and reflexively he avoids eye contact with you, you can be sure he is hiding something. Whether it's a lie or keeping a secret.

Body movements / body language will show lies
Anyone who lies, including your partner, will have different characteristics of body movements / body language when he is honest or lying. Starting from eye contact, how to talk, facial expression, movement of hands or feet and posture when talking. Once again someone who is lying certainly will not feel comfortable when speaking because they are afraid of his secret being revealed unless he is a professional liar.

Twitter can also show your partner is lying. Talking haltingly or nervously indicates if he is in turmoil. Whether it's because of lack of confidence or because of trying to hide something. This happened because in his mind he was trying to find a way to keep his secret from being revealed. Well, try to pay attention. If he had never been nervous and suddenly he was nervous when you talked about something then it could be a sign he was lying.

Quickly Switch Talks & inconsistencies to the conversation
When couples lie they are not focused on the conversation that they think is just how to talk lies so as not to be uncovered. So that they are not focused and inconsistent in speaking, sometimes speaking of this soon talk about that, etc. Many are not aware that the lie can make him feel depressed, especially when the things he tries to hide start talking about. It cannot be hidden at all, no matter how hard the effort a person does.

Inconsistency in conversation, unfocusedness and frequent conversations at a round when he lies can be an identification or one of the ways most couples do when hiding lies. Even when the couple is accustomed to lying precisely because of his ability to speak he can distort the facts so as if the right is wrong or vice versa.

Emotional reflex
Now this emotional reflex will occur when the couple begins to get depressed with the lies he made. When they can no longer provide authentic evidence to justify their lies they will emit emotional reflexes that are anger or crying. You can also seduce your partner to cover up lies at the same time so that the lie is no longer discussed. Flirting and seducing words or body language is one of the most frequently done tricks to hide his lies. The goal is nothing else so you don't focus on finding out what he is hiding from you.